Detangling is a crucial part
of all hair care. Detangling is simply using a hair-care tool to comb or brush
through your hair. This helps to remove tangles and shed hairs that can cause
matting, knots, and ultimately, breakage.
Many naturals have hair growth goals, but are
struggling with retaining length. Learning to properly detangle natural hair
will ensure that you are not just breaking it off. It will also help with
overall healthy hair care, as improper detangling can result in split ends and
damaged cuticles. Here are some tips on detangling your hair without ripping it
out.
Wet and Condition Your Hair
Try wetting your hair thoroughly, then applying
a generous amount of a slippery conditioner to your hair. When the hair is wet
and lots of conditioner is applied, it is in a very ideal state for detangling.
The water and conditioner provide lubrication and slip to the hair, which will
make it super easy to detangle. your hair needs lubrication in order for your comb or brush to glide
through. The more slippery your hair is, the more easily your comb or brush
will go through it. Wet hair is also more elastic than dry hair, and will
stretch under the tension of a comb or brush. Dry hair can easily break when
combed because it has less elasticity and won’t stretch much before breaking.
Wet hair with lots of slippery conditioner in it can make for easy, breezy
detangling.
Detangle in sections
After hair is nice and lubricated, separate it into about 6-8 sections. Detangling your hair in sections can make
life so much easier. Focusing on one section at a time is much less stressful
than trying to detangle your whole head at once, and it ensures that you’re
getting all of the parts of your hair. Detangling in sections also enables you
to separate the hair you’ve already detangled from the hair that still needs to
be detangled. You can use plastic hair clamps or duck bill clips to secure your
sections, and make even smaller sections if needed. It is always a good idea to
twist or braid the section after you are finished detangling it, to prevent it
from tangling up again!

Use a Proper Comb or Brush
Combs and brushes are great for detangling, but
some combs and brushes are better than others. I recommend using a wide-tooth
comb or a brush with hard, wide bristles and a rubber base. Combs with tiny
teeth are not as easy to detangle with as wide-tooth combs, and can cause more
breakage than necessary. Invest in combs with teeth ½ an inch apart or wider.
Start From The Ends and Work Your Way Up
Don’t begin detangling from the middle or the
root of your hair! You can’t detangle downward from the middle if the ends
below it are tangled. Instead, begin detangling from the ends of the hair. Hold
the ends of your hair with one hand and detangle with the other hand. Once the
very end is detangled, begin detangling an inch above that. Continue detangling
from a point higher than the one before until the section is completely
detangled.
Try Finger Detangling Before Using a Brush or
a Comb
Finger detangling is using your fingers like a
comb, and separating strands of hair. Detangling with your fingers before using
a brush or a comb can be great because you can feel major knots and tangles
with your fingers and pull them apart gently. Take the section of hair and
first pull the hairs apart gently with your fingers, separating any tangles.
Then, comb your hair with your fingers! Finger detangling makes using the comb
or brush much easier afterwards.
Detangle Before and After Shampooing
Shampoo tends to make the hairs stick together,
so you should be sure that the hair is as separated as possible and has the
least amount of shed hairs as possible before shampooing. You don’t want to
have tangles in the hair and then add even more tangles by shampooing! You also
want to re-separate the hair after shampooing. After rinsing out the shampoo,
add conditioner to your hair and detangle!
Be Gentle
Always be gentle when detangling your hair.
Rough detangling will cause nothing but pain, breakage, and damage. Detangle
slowly and carefully, especially at the ends of your hair where it is the
oldest and weakest. Your hair is awesome! Treat it like it is!